Last Saturday, I was lucky enough to have dinner with authors Myretta Robens, her critique partner Sandy Tabor, Loretta Chase, and Evelyn Richardson.
In the course of dinner, wherein we discussed authentic 19th century pigs, colonial Williamsburg, Venice, marriage contracts, and how much we love mashed potatoes, we talked about writing.
Writing, we decided, is the one thing we do that doesn’t have instant gratification. If the kitchen floor needs mopping, you pull out the Swiffer and have a go at it. Fifteen minutes later, you’ve got a clean floor. Other people can see you’ve got a clean floor. You’re certain you’ve accomplished something.
With writing, all the gratification is delayed–writing your 1,000 words, five pages, one chapter, etc., doesn’t reward you the same way sparkling linoleum does.
That conversation made me realize that my ability to procrastinate is just my desire for instant gratification. If I clear off the dining room table instead of write, I’ve done something I can point to and say ‘it’s done!’ The most insidious form of this instant gratification thing is posting to a blog–it’s writing, so it’s satisfying that way, but it’s also done, and you can see it’s done, and others can see it’s done. It can become a substitute for real writing, the kind that we’re theoretically doing when we log off Blogger.
So, since my brain is not always so smart, I am going to figure out a way to satisfy the instant gratification thing AND get some longer fiction writing done. How? By setting daily goals, by making writing my 1,000 words, five pages, one chapter, something my brain believes is a tangible, instant result. Silly brain.
And in a few months, I will have an entire book to show for it. Now that’s gratifying.
What tricks do you use to fool your brain? Do you offer rewards for completed tasks, like getting to read a new book?
Megan
With writing, all the gratification is delayed–writing . . . doesn’t reward you the same way sparkling linoleum does.
I’ve never felt any gratification at the sight of sparkling linoleum. LOL! Perhaps that’s why my kitchen floor is perpetually covered in muddy dog prints.
I’m big on goals and rewards. The one that best motivates me lately is that if I meet my goals for the month, I get to buy a research book that feels like a splurge–one that costs more than I normally spend on a single book or one that’s out-of-print and hard to find.
I need to find some goals and rewards that work for me, so I find this topic very interesting, Megan! I hope to get some ideas from everyone else here…
Cara
I’m with you, Kalen! Any gratification I might feel about cleaning something up is ruined post haste by the next person to come along and mess it. I’d love to add big muddy paw prints to the mix but dh is strictly a cat man.
My reward for writing is that I no longer have time for housework. *G*
That, and I also don’t feel so depressed and frustrated with the day job I’m growing weary of if I’ve written and painted the night before.
I’m considering making blog visits my reward for so many pages done and turning off the Net until that goal is met every day. Harsh, I know, but where I am right now? 🙂
When I complete a task, I usually reward myself by stressing out over the next task that I have to get done.
Seriously, I am capable of procrastinating for almost unlimited periods of time. But I’ve gotten better at making lists and checking things off of them. Checking something off of a list feels like accomplishing something. If something is a really big, long-term project, I try to break it into a series of steps, so I can check each of them off.
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