Diamonds Are Forever
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Do you believe in lucky charms? What’s yours? I have a signed copy of Deborah and Elliot’s story to give away. Just leave a comment for a chance to win.
Happy Tuesday, everyone! Our first order of the day–a winner. Christina Hollis, you are the winner of the guidebook to Kedleston Hall, the inspiration for our Castonbury Park series. Please send us your mailing info at Riskies AT yahoo.com…
The second order of the day–weddings! Again! This weekend I attended the wedding of my oldest friend (we’ve known each other since we were freshmen in high school), and I had a fabulous time. It seems to be weddings all the time around here right now. I have now chosen a dress (the style is a secret for now though, since you never know who might look at his blog…) and a place for the wedding (Santa Fe in December). Now all I have to do is find a moment between working towards TWO deadlines and wasting time watching the Olympics all the time (seriously–I was watching archery at 2 in the morning last night) to figure out everything else.
All this wedding business made me wonder about the history of the engagement ring. Here are a few tidbits I found while doing some research:
1) The ancient Egyptians and Romans had some form of wedding/betrothal rings. The Egyptians were a single twisted wire of silver or gold, and they were the first to believe the ring should be worn on the 4th finger of the left hand because supposedly a vein led from there to the heart. (Many mummies have been found wearing these rings). The Romans often had a small carved key on their wedding rings–a modern-day romantic might think it is meant to be “the key to the heart” but in reality it probably signified unlocking wealth, or ownership. Wealthy Roman wives might have two rings, a gold one for special/going out days and an iron one for everyday.
2) The first known diamond engagement ring was exchanged between Archduke Maximilian of Austria and Mary of Burgundy in 1477. (for the rest of us they took a few hundred years to catch on). One of the smallest diamond engagement rings on record was exchanged in 1518 between the Dauphin of France and Princess Mary of England. The bride was 2 years old. It didn’t work out.
3) In the Renaissance, “Posie” (promise) rings were popular, gold or silver bands engraved with verses exhorting the beloved to “remember me”. (I have a copy of such a ring that was found in the excavation of the Rose Theater. I always imagine the girl who lost it must have been very upset. Or maybe they had a fight and she threw it away). I read a legend that says in Puritan communities the brides were given a thimble (since rings would be vanity), but they ended up cutting off the tops and wearing the bands as rings anyway.
4) Rubies were very popular in the 18th century. The Victorians, with their love of all things sentimental, loved DEAREST rings (bands set with a diamond, emerald, amethyst, etc). Serpents were also considered good luck; Queen Victoria had a ring with this motif.
5) In 1867, diamond mines were discovered in South Africa. In 1886, Tiffany introduced the “Tiffany setting,” a 6-pring ring that showed off the stone by raising it up off the band. Diamonds really started to take off for engagement rings in the 1920s and ’30s, when places like Sears started carrying them.
6) In 1946, men’s wedding bands became trendy when Humphrey Bogart wore one after his marriage to Lauren Bacall.
In modern times, of course, the choice is endless!
What kind of ring do you like best? Which historical wedding would you like to jump in the time machine and attend?? Whose ring would you steal?
Amanda is taking Tuesday off for a little pre-4th of July picnic prep, but Michelle Willingham is filling in with a post about Scotland and her exciting new release, Tempted By The Highland Warrior!! Comment for a chance to win a copy. See you next week…
It’s a stunning land, full of wild beauty. But during our days there, it rained every single day. At the time, I was a little frustrated. I had wanted to hike through the mountains of Glencoe, seeing the mountains in all their glory. Instead, I saw fog and clouds, blocking our view. Our windshield wipers got a great workout, and every time we stopped the car to take a picture, both of us were fighting off the rain.
Is it Tuesday already??? Wow. I have been working on two projects lately, plus planning a new one, plus trying to have some summer fun, so the week has really crept up on me. So…what else have I been thinking about lately?
1) Winners! The winner from my post last week launching One Naughty Night is…Lisa Wolff! Email me at amccabe7551 AT yahoo.com with your mailing info and I will get a signed copy mailed out to you ASAP
2) Blogs and reviews. Both good (yay!) and not-so-good (sad!). It seems like the first week or so when a book is out brings several of them to my inbox every day. Yesterday I was at the Grand Central Forever blog talking about how being a theater geek led me to the St. Claire family…
3) Watching “Call Me Maybe” takeoffs on YouTube
4) Which led me to “irrational celebrity hate lists” (not sure how). We all have at least one, right? Mine happens to be Kristin Stewart. Ugh. She just seems to stomp around looking profoundly angry that designers have thrown free clothes at her…
5) Maybe that means we also have irrational hate lists for character types? The dotty old dowager? The ditzy best friend? Hmm.
6) Reading, of course. I just finished Amor Towles’s amazing Rules of Civility, and now I can’t decide what to read next. Any suggestions??
Who is on your irrational celebrity hate list??